LOOKING
FOR NAOMI
This is yet
one of those serious posts that I really felt I had to write in this season and
I have dedicated it to the original Naomi in my life, my mum.
I’m sure the
title seems a bit strange but it is basically based on the relationship Ruth in
the Bible had with Naomi.
It’s been 10
years since my mum passed on and it is only in recent years that I realized I
have a gap of an older woman in my life. I am sure one may wonder what a grown
woman needs an older woman in her life for. My answer is plenty. The verse in
Titus is no joke. Let’s look at it
Titus
2:3-5
3 the older
women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to
much wine, teachers of good things— 4 that they admonish the young women to love their
husbands, to love their children, 5 to be discreet,
chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God
may not be blasphemed.
For me this verse is more than about being
married. There is the preparation for before and even during and just being a
wholesome woman in the first place. That is something that you can only learn
from another woman.
The verse speaks to me more about what kind of a
woman one should be in society because even the character of the older woman
and her reputation has to be intact. Besides that when this verse was written
the role of a woman in society was more about being a wife and mother but so
much has changed in current society.
I enjoyed the movie War Room a lot and my main
impact of the movie was how Miss Clara was such a Naomi to Elizabeth. She
walked her through being a wholesome wife by teaching her to turn to God in her
circumstances and challenged her to be a Naomi to another Ruth in need of help.
That is actually what stood out to me in that movie. What the power of two in
agreement can do. Apart from what God did in that marriage there was a huge transformation
for both Miss Clara and Elizabeth. For Miss Clara she helped a younger woman
avoid the mistakes she made in her marriage and walked her through the difficult
situation she was in through prayer. For Elizabeth she became more wholesome,
more forgiving, a better mother and wife and a joyful woman.
I picked the Story of Naomi and Ruth in the
Bible from the book of Ruth. There is always so much stressed on how Ruth met
Boaz and people forget that Naomi had a big part to play in that relationship.
As much as Naomi was originally Ruth’s
mother-in-law I believe Ruth truly converted to Judaism when she dedicated her
life to be with Naomi after her husband died. I think so because Naomi was not
too sure about her daughter-in-law’s commitment to Judaism or even to her when
she decided to go back home. But when Ruth abandoned all she knew and dedicated
the rest of her days to be with Naomi without knowing what the future held,
that was what sealed it for Naomi. She was sure Ruth truly loved and cared for
her. Not that Orpah didn’t, I just think Orpah wasn’t ready to commit to a life
of uncertainty.
Sometimes when I mentor younger ladies, I do get
the ones who are committed to walk their life journey with you and those that
it is only for a season.
It is easy as a young woman to think you have
life figured out and the truth is that it is a difficult world out there. We
need each other and especially the Naomi-Ruth relationships. For all who have
mums, grandmothers, sisters, aunts, mother-in –laws, sister-in-laws, female
mentors etc. Do not take that time you spend or their presence in your life for
granted. Appreciate them and reach out to them.
As much as we need them to give into our lives
we also need to help them. Even as Ruth took care of Naomi we need to ensure we
minister to the Naomi’s in our lives where we can.
I have had a lot of older women come and go in
my life, short term as it was the impact they have had in my life only God
knows. They did not even have to necessarily speak but just to know that they
care and how I saw them live their lives and take care of their families is
amazing to me. I have seen God work in their lives in an amazing way.
My mother was
an amazing woman. She impacted so many young ladies in her lifetime and even
when I meet them now they miss her just as much as I do. She was willing to
meet them at their level and even went and visited them in their homes. She made
real impact in their lives and was a source of encouragement to them. Because of
her my sister and I have a passion for reaching out to younger ladies and just
being there for them in the space they are in. and we truly want her legacy to
live on through that ministry.
I encourage
ladies out there, reach out to a lady younger than you and younger ladies reach
out to the older ladies to walk with you in this life journey. Who knows we
might create a movement. But we need to be there for one another as women.
Reach out today.
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